Writer's Block: Youthful Transgressions
Jul. 23rd, 2009 02:06 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png)
[Error: unknown template qotd] I. Regret. Nothing.
We learn from our experiences - especially those stemming from mistakes - if we're paying attention.
You know what's even worse? Regretting things you didn't do. I grew up hearing: "I should have done X." and "I really wish I'd done Y." Although... that probably prompted me to accomplish certain things so I wouldn't have similar regrets later.
Guess what? There is no rewind and I think dwelling on the past is a waste of a perfectly good present.
Dwelling on the negative is a waste of time too, but that's a post of its own. I feel it coming on, too.
We learn from our experiences - especially those stemming from mistakes - if we're paying attention.
You know what's even worse? Regretting things you didn't do. I grew up hearing: "I should have done X." and "I really wish I'd done Y." Although... that probably prompted me to accomplish certain things so I wouldn't have similar regrets later.
Guess what? There is no rewind and I think dwelling on the past is a waste of a perfectly good present.
Dwelling on the negative is a waste of time too, but that's a post of its own. I feel it coming on, too.
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Date: 2009-07-23 07:44 pm (UTC)(no subject)
Date: 2009-07-23 08:11 pm (UTC)On the corporate ladder climbing, there's a lot to be said for moving out of a pattern that doesn't suit you and doing something else. I think the saddest part is when people look back on that climb - or whatever they did which wasn't the best choice for them - and end up lamenting the time spent on it instead of moving forward.