Let's talk about sex, baby

Okay. I'm no erotica expert, but I've been discussing writing sex scenes with a few people recently in an effort to define what works and what doesn't as a reader.

I know what I like. It may not be what you like; people find different things hot and preferences vary. But I've been thinking back to stories I thought were hot, and awesome, and dissecting exactly why I thought they were hot and awesome. Several things whacked me in the head:

This is long.

( That's what SHE said! )