You know what happens when I'm with a dude for the first time and he's not cut? I say, "Oh. Okay," and continue with whatever we were doing.

IT'S NOT A BIG DEAL WTF.

Moreover, I don't see how or why it would be mentioned, beyond a laborious, pre-sex scene description.

Once a guy is hard, especially if you're not used to seeing foreskins or unless you're looking for it, it doesn't matter if the foreskin is there or not.

Sheesh.

I guess I just want to know what fic the OP was reading that they even get annoyed by this!